Feelers and behavers

Feelers Behavers
Conceptual Perceptual
See things in wholes See things in additive parts
Overly concerned with own inner life Overly concerned with other and external life
Experience and forget Watch and record
Touch and participate Look and listen
Process-oriented Goal-oriented
Being somewhere Going somewhere
Creative Productive
Inventor Implementor
Inventive Pragmatic
Idealistic Practical
Identify with parent of opposite sex Identify with parent of same sex
Know what they want Know what to do
Unorganized Systemic
Space conscious Time conscious
Heart sense Head sense

 

from "The Art of Intimacy", Personal Relativity